Archive for January, 2012
A cremation service
If I die, I wanted to be cremated even though some of my relative was against the belief of burning the body of dead people still, on my own opinion I would prefer getting burn and seen by people on a precious vase on my burial day than seeing my dead body and being remembered as cold non moving body on a casket. I do not want to leave my love one sadness and misery by looking at me, dead and not breathing. Still I wanted them to remember me smiling, alive, in action and of course the way I am when I am alive than the one of the casket. When I explain to my husband why I really prefer cremation than getting buried with body he understand me and even feel my sincerity that I wanted to stay on their side even if I am dead. Physical as a ashes on a closed container still they know that it was a part of me even if burn and turn into ashes. My husband even showed me the services about the cremation that he found online. Sad but true that we are all going to the end and with my health situation preparation for things like this was not that problem to talk to.